How much time people usually use to forget a tragedy?

I guess I am going to use mu entire life to pay for a mistake that I been made

Ade, why are you so naive when you are young?

You always thought that you found your prince

You always wish that one day someone could love you like what you expected

But you never realize that you are the one  should love yourself more than others love you

You always promised yourself that you are going to love yourself

But did you?

You are wasting your valuable time to put yourself in the past

Help yourself to go through the past 

Can you do that?